Mercy

I practice gentle femdom, firmly, not cruelly. I already live that with my husband. He is cared for, claimed, and first. That does not change.
I look after the men who belong in my orbit. Care is not equality. He keeps first place. Anyone new accepts that before he asks for anything else.
I like obedient boys who treat me like a goddess without being told twice. Edging. Orgasm control. Quiet humiliation. You wait. I don’t. My orgasms are mine, as many as I want. Yours happen when I allow them, or they don’t.
Tribute is part of the devotion, not a side quest. If you want access, you show it. If you want to compete with my husband, you won’t get through the door.
Second chair means: useful, respectful, financially serious, and smart enough to enjoy being second.