For my interview Im a Findom Goddess
How did you start being a sugarbabe or findom? What motivated you to it?
Hello, I am Goddess Char also known as Goddess Storm. I first came to the fetish community by way of already being an adult gentlemen’s companion, or as the world calls us, “escort”. A few of my first sessions were with submissive men. Now, I need to backtrack and let you understand who I am as a person first. I have always been extremely “feminist” since I was a kid. When I was 8 I remember saying to my mom mom, “How come women take their husband’s name?, When I get married mom mom my man will take my name!”, then when I got married ( now divorced) years ago, I made them remove the obey section from the vows… I will never obey a man. I deeply to my core believe women are superior, our thought process, our deviousness, our beauty and the fact that we are the vessels and bearers of life itself , make me more certain that all women are Goddesses. I just found a way to capitalize off of it. Men should pay women , they owe us!
What were some of the negative experiences you had?
I have not had any negative experiences as a findom as of yet. I can say that it is very aggravating and annoying for men , to constantly still approach, or try to chat without paying tribute first. Hello.. its findom, no money= no atttention.. PERIOD.
What were some of the more positive experiences you have had?
I would have to say that every time a man gives me a large sum of money , without me having to touch him or even be in his presence while singing his devotion and praises of my beauty , well.. it is a mental high or rush for me not to mention I love being able to support my household!
What advice can you give to others who would like to try it?
I would tell them , be prepared to work hard, it looks pretty, it looks glamorous , but it take dedication , A REAL DOMINANT PERSONALITY , and the right thought process to be a domme of any type. You have to stay on top of it especially on social media to achieve your goals.
What do you like most about being a sugarbabe or being in findom?
Of course I enjoy controlling men the absolute most, watching them grovel and plead and then pay anything just for my attention, its amazing.
What do you find most attractive in a sugardaddy or slave?
His willingness to be obedient to me , followed by his wallet, of course.
Who knows about your profession or hobby? What was their reaction?
My loved ones and closest family already knew about me being an escort, so me doing findom which keeps me a little safer in their eyes was certainly welcomed.
Have you ever consider not doing it anymore? why?
Actually findom is something I can see myself doing long term along with dominant sex work, however I am in my retirement year of escorting , so again FINDOM for me along with my two web design and marketing companies, which I own and run are part of my retirement plan.
Can you live off it well or just enough for some expenses?
I am sure this answer differs for us all. I have not tried to make enough off of it to live off of it, as I work in several areas of the adult industry, and do web design , but I do know ladies who do manage to make more than enough to live off of.
How has your life changed with it?
I guess for me since I am also an escort , I was already making money off men , paying me to be in the presence of my beauty so that aspect didnt change what changed for me , is NOW I know longer have to allow them to be in my actual real life physical presence which for me is awesome!