Okay, so ill be straight forward- I'm a former professional dominatrix that's moved over to living the vanillish lifestyle. I still talk to some subs from time to time, but since slowing down my life, there's always been something missing... and I kinda miss the money and traveling too but that's not my main priority - I'd rather find happiness and have few loyal and bonded subs who understand what that looks like now.

Not completely sure what I'm looking for yet, so im keeping an open mind and exploring if this is even the right avenue to take.

I won't be downloading apps just to grovel and be scammed.. I've been part of the game for over 10 years and can eye out a scam when I see one. I won't communicate with you if I don't like the direction of the conversation, just because you have a burning wallet, doesn't mean I'd succumb to a little bit of petty cash by subjecting myself to being vunerable. With all my subs, I chose to bond with you and making sure we both know each other's needs. That's the first rule of BDSM and Kink - youre bonding and learning to trust one another.

I don't mind being friends and chatting but I'm very selective with my time and communication if it does not bring value into my life I probably won't stick around and that isn't always monetarily value that im talking about either.

If youre interested in chatting or seeing if we mesh, just dm me and maybe we can exchange other forms of communicating and go from there...